How to be a better date!

Special Guest Matchmaker Stef Safran

Stef Safran, is “Chicago's Introductionista” and owner of Stef and the City. She’s a matchmaking and dating expert in Chicago. She’s been in the business for over 14 years, starting with recruiting contestants on “The Dating Game.” She founded Stef and the City in 2009 and have been featured in media outlets such as; the Huffington Post, Chicago Sun-Times, The Chicago Tribune, ABC7, NBC5, CBS2, WGN, Fox32 News, ABC7’s “Windy City Live”, WCIU’s “You and Me This Morning,” Time Out Chicago and more!

Discussion:  

• If you are looking for someone serious, do they talk about being available to do things.
• Do they ask you appropriate questions as you are getting to know them, or do they push boundaries?
• Do they talk a lot about past exes, instead of having clear cut boundaries about appropriate information about the past.
• Do they seem to be hot and cold?
• Do you have a tendency to assume that someone must be wanting a serious relationship because their online profile says so?
• Do you talk too much about sex too early on? 
• How do you respond to someone when they first disappoint you?
• How much information do you give out when asked questions that are personal in nature?
• Do you know how to set up boundaries without things coming across as "unnatural"?
• How to date on the offense and NOT the defense.